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Archive for the ‘women’ Category


How to Defeat the Bigger Stronger Opponent NOW AVAILABLE

Thursday, November 3rd, 2011

I have 600 complete sets of “How to Defeat the Bigger, Stronger Opponent” in stock, and they’re ready to ship right now.

Emily Kwok and I have been crafting this 5 DVD set for a long time, and it’s one of the best instructional sets I have ever seen.

There are 5 DVDs – three main DVDs with more than 5 hours of instruction, and two unique bonus DVDs, for a grand total of more than 7 hours of instruction…

Every aspect of these DVDs is devoted to techniques, drills, strategies and mindset to defeat the bigger, stronger opponent on the mat.

This set is normally going to sell for $150. But because they’re brand new and I don’t have any testimonials yet, I’m pricing these first 600 sets at $97 and throwing in free shipping anywhere in the world.

To keep things manageable the reduced price will apply until the 600 DVDs are gone, or Thursday November 10th, whichever comes first.

Click HERE for the complete story and all the details.

Take care
Stephan Kesting

P.S. I’m also giving an unconditional money-back guarantee on the DVDs. Don’t like them? Don’t want them? Didn’t help you? Let me know and I’ll happily refund your money. I believe that these DVDs will help you and that’s why I’m taking ALL the risk, not you!

How to Defeat the Bigger, Stronger Opponent

Friday, October 14th, 2011

*** Post edited November 3rd, 2011: Please note that these DVDs are now available for shipping!  Click here for more details and ordering information ***

It’s a very exciting day! For the past few months I’ve been working like crazy to get my new DVD series finished.

In this series I’m collaborating with my friend, and former teammate, Emily Kwok.

She’s one of the best known competitive grapplers out there! For a lot of different reasons.

First of all, she’s one hell of a competitor.

Emily is not only a Brazilian Jiu-jitsu world champion, she’s also won amateur and professional MMA fights, and just two weeks ago she won a gold medal in the Pan Am No Gi Championships in the Absolute (no weight limit) division!  So when she tells you that something works you can really believe her.

Secondly, she’s got an impeccable pedigree. Emily has learned from many of the very best instructors in the world, and is currently training and working with Marcelo Garcia.

(Marcelo is, of course, a 5 time BJJ world champion and 4 time no-gi ADCC champion. But he’s also been an absolute terror in the Absolute division, regularly facing and submitting much larger world-class opponents.)

Third, and most importantly, Emily is a born teacher. And this is the real reason I decided to work with her. She’s got a real knack for being able to break down and teach techniques in a way that makes them easy to learn and quick to implement.

After we decided to work together, Emily and I spent months criss-crossing the continent to talk strategy, do research, plan the script, and film the material.

And once we filmed the material, I locked myself into a dark room with my editor to take the footage and create the actual DVDs. (It’s true! My friends and training partners haven’t seen me for a month.)

And then today, at last, I got the master copies from my editor. I gave them a final once-over and then went to the courier.

Tomorrow morning my duplicator will have them in his hands and begin working on the final product! (The only thing I’m worried about is that most DVD duplication facilities are already working at full capacity to prepare their Xmas stockpiles. Hopefully the wait isn’t too long, and they’re able to produce the quantities I want.)

If everything goes well this series should be available in mid to early November!

So, what’s the topic of these DVDs? Hopefully the title will give you a hint…

This 5 DVD series is called “How to Defeat the Bigger Stronger Opponent!”

And that’s EXACTLY what they’re about.

The DVDs are filled to the brim with techniques, strategies, tactics, training methods and drills to give you an unfair advantage when you’re smaller than the person you’re grappling.

The idea for this series actually came from you guys.

You see I get asked hundreds of questions via emails, Facebook, etc. every week. And the most common question – hands down – is what to do when facing a bigger stronger person.

This is a totally valid concern!

Being pinned and smothered on the ground by a Goliath is no fun at all. In fact, even a weight difference of 10 or 20 pounds can allow a bigger person to simply use their natural strength, size and weight advantage to crush and overpower you.

I do my best to answer these questions, but the fact that I’m 6′ 1″ and 215 lbs means that I’m not the ideal poster boy for teaching this topic. Which is ironic, because even I get worried about running into people bigger than myself (and am glad to have a few tricks up my sleeve to handle that situation when it happens).

Anyway, this image problem is why I first started thinking about collaborating with someone. And when I heard what Emily was up to, and saw how she was basically reverse-engineering Marcelo Garcia’s game, I knew I had work with her.

Her game is tailor-made for dealing with larger stronger opponents. After all, the vast majority of her training partners are bigger than she is.  And she’s proved her techniques work in the absolute divisions of some of the toughest tournaments around.

The basic premise of the DVDs is that size does matter, but that there ARE specific, concrete things you can do to compensate for size.

With the right techniques and strategies it is absolutely possible to successfully hold your ground against bigger, stronger opponents. And with the right leverage-based techniques you can even go on the offensive and bring the fight to them!

Whether you’re male or female, these DVDs are going to show you exactly how to do that.

I’ve been doing martial arts a long time. And produced a ton of videos and instructional materials.

I can honestly say that this is one of the very best DVD series I have ever seen.

And I hope that in early to mid November, when it comes out, you’ll like it too!

P.S.  You can see some of behind-the-scenes pics of the filming and editing process on the Grapplearts Facebook Page

*** Post edited November 3rd, 2011: Please note that these DVDs are now available for shipping!  Click here for more details and ordering information ***

Life’s not fair (but these tips will work for just about anybody)

Monday, October 3rd, 2011

Life just isn’t fair!!

BJJ is the art of leverage, but there are techniques in the grappling repertoire that require you to be at least as strong as your opponent.

If you’re a smaller, lighter grappler then you may not want to concentrate on these ‘big guy’ moves.

In order to survive on the mats, smaller grapplers need to have techniques and strategies that’ll work against bigger people.

They have to develop their own game by adding little tweaks to compensate for being lighter… Techniques where size isn’t as important…  Submissions that work regardless of strength…

In fact, advanced smaller grapplers often become ultra-technical.

And that, in turn, often makes them awesome teachers!

Here’s the ironic part.  Smaller people shouldn’t try fighting like bigger people.  But the reverse isn’t necessarily true…

A bigger person with some ‘small man jiu-jitsu’ tricks, techniques and strategies in his game can be a VERY formidable opponent.

So here’s Krista Dixon-Smith sharing some Small Girl Jiu-jitsu’ Tips.

Obviously it’s required reading for women in the sport.

But if you’re large, male and smart, then you’ll want to read it asap because there’s a ton of great advice here.  And most of it is applicable to all grapplers large and small.

www.grapplearts.com/Tips-For-Female-Grapplers.html

P.S.  If you want more along these lines then check out the links at the bottom of the article – lots of good stuff there!

Some recent pics; see me get choked!

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

I just briefly want to share some behind-the-scene pics from my recent filming session with Emily Kwok.

Emily is a BJJ black belt who has trained with some of the best people in the world.  And she’s been very successful at the highest levels of competition in BJJ, Submission Grappling and Women’s MMA.

We haven’t finished the editing the DVDs yet, but you can see some quick pictures taken during filming by clicking here.  It’s a Facebook link but you DON’T need to be signed up or logged into Facebook to see it:

http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.378068794966.55245.23809659966&type=1

And while we’re on the topic of Emily, she did a fantastic interview with me a couple of months ago which you can access as an audio file or a full transcript by clicking here:

http://www.grapplearts.com/A-Womans-Journey-in-Brazilian-Jiu-Jitsu.php

Sarah Kaufman, Top Female MMA Fighter, Reveals All!

Friday, July 29th, 2011

Sarah Kaufman Female MMA FighterSarah Kaufman is one of the top fighters in women’s MMA.

And she is officially amazing!

I just did an in-depth interview and podcast with Sarah and grilled her pretty hard (I hate interviews where you don’t actually learn anything about the fighter or about the way they train).

But the information she gave out went way, way beyond what I was expecting.

You can listen to the audio, download the mp3 or read the transcript by clicking right here.
If you check out this most recent of Grapplearts interviews you’ll find out:

•    how a top level fighter manages to fit boxing, jiujitsu, kickboxing, wrestling, conditioning and recovery into a training week,

•    how she deals with sore muscles and joints created by her insane training volume,

•    specific drills to train the transitions between ranges,

•    how fight camp is different than regular training

•    the truth behind cutting weight, and how much a weight a fighter gets back between the weigh-in and the fight,

•    a super-cool post-fight ritual that led to an amusing encounter in a hotel hallway,

•    and the one specific thing that separates a champion from an chump.

It’s a great interview, and I’m sure you’re going to enjoy it.  Go here now to download the audio and/or read the transcript:

www.grapplearts.com/Sarah-Kaufman-on-Female-MMA.php

A Woman’s Jiu-Jitsu Journey from White Belt to Black Belt

Saturday, May 14th, 2011

Emily-Kwok-Woman-Jiu-Jitsu-3In this feature interview I talk with Emily Kwok who is a very smart, very talented jiu-jitsu practitioner.

She’s been involved in the woman’s competition circuit for a long time, having competed both with and without the gi, and in MMA overseas. Her ability as a teacher of jiu-jitsu – to both men and women – is proved every time she steps on the mats at her BJJ Academy in Princeton, NJ.

In this interview she shares survival strategies when you’re always the smallest person on the mat, how women should deal with inappropriate situations they encounter during training, how to pick a school that fits your needs, and much more.

You can either read the interview below or listen/download the audio by doing one of the following:

1. Hit play in the middle of the black bar (the audio player link) at the bottom of this list, and/or

2. Right click on this link and select ‘save as’ to download the mp3 file to your computer, and/or

3. Subscribe to the Grapplearts Podcast in iTunes (and also listen to previous audio interviews),

4. Read the transcript of the entire interview by clicking here

P.S. If you like the interview then also check out Emily’s 5 DVD Set, ‘How to Defeat the Bigger, Stronger Opponent’ with the techniques, tips, drills and strategies that she uses every day while training with, and competing against, bigger stronger opponents.  They’re really good!

Why Men Should Grapple Women (and Smaller Men)

Monday, February 28th, 2011

Here’s a very interesting email from a female reader that I thought I’d pass along…

Hi Stephan,

I just read through the article called “Why Should Women Grapple?

There are many good reasons listed and arguments made in that article, so I decided to take a different spin and offer a different perspective on the topic… That’s why I wrote up a quick article about why men should grapple women.

Why Men Should Grapple Women (and Smaller Men)

There are many reasons why women should grapple. It provides us with self defense techniques, it trains us to deal with pressure, and it is great exercise and stress relief.

But there are also many reasons why men should grapple women. It’s not just a one sided relationship.

When you’re first learning a sweep, it’s easier to practice on a smaller person. We’re usually the smallest on the mat. You can work out the bugs and refine your technique, just don’t launch us 10 feet into the air. Try practicing the move very slowly, smoothly, and with as little effort as possible. If you start with the biggest guy in class you’ll probably rush/brute force your way through the technique and miss many of the details.

Rolling with women will also tighten up your game. We tend to be flexible and can squirm and slip our way through spaces you didn’t know you had. Just because you’re using all your weight to pin us to the mat doesn’t mean we can’t put you back into the guard.

Women move well. We can’t pin you, so we compensate by developing the ability to transition in order to keep dominate position. If we’re good, you won’t be able to muscle us off. You’ll need to use proper escapes.

If a woman has grappled for any length of time she has probably developed good technique, timing, and the ability to relax. All are necessary for survival, since we can’t use size and strength. These skills minimize injury and make grappling fun. Let’s face it, we’d be crazy to stick with it if we spent 100% of the time on the bottom getting flattened into a pancake. If you have questions, just ask. If we know the answer, we’d be happy to share it with you. If we don’t, we are always willing to learn and find out more.

If you have an ego you won’t progress very far in BJJ. You won’t put yourself in a position where you can make mistakes, and therefore you won’t learn. You really need to let go of your ego if you roll with a woman using only technique. It’s OK to tap. We tap all the time.

I once had a guy tell me that I taught him how not to be a brute. He said that his game really improved because of that. That made my day. I’ve learned so much from the guys I grapple with, and I like the thought that I can give back.

About the Author: Kara is a black belt in Washin-Ryu karate, and has been training at Buffalo BJJ for four years, currently holding the rank of blue belt.

The Six BJJ Supplements That Really Work

Monday, January 10th, 2011

When it comes to supplements, most people either take nothing at all or far too many!

And most serious grapplers go through a phase of taking tons of supplements in hopes of boosting their jiu-jitsu game.

I went supplement-crazy myself about 8 years ago.   I was taking at least 50 pills and tablets each day, including thrice-daily multivitamins… Selenium… Reishi extract… Chromium picolinate… Turmeric extract… Branched chain amino acids… Phosphatidyl serine… Etc.  Etc.  Etc.  The list went on and on.  And I continued taking all these supplements for about 6 months

So what was the effect of all these supplements?  Did I get bigger?  Stronger?  Faster?  Did my jiu-jitsu game jump up a full belt level?

No! Despite the placebo effect (more on that later) I didn’t notice ANY improvements to my strength, energy levels or recovery times.

But I did spend oodles of money on various pills, tablets and powders…

Probably the only real effect was that my urine became very expensive!

Why do so many people take so many different kinds of supplements?  Here’s a few reasons off the top of my head:

1 – Wishful Thinking. Wouldn’t it just be easier if you could pop a few pills every day rather than doing the hard work to maintain a healthy diet, putting in time under heavy iron and doing cardio,

2 – Advertising. Bodybuilding magazines and fitness websites exist in order to sell supplements. I’ve followed this industry for the last 20 years and there’s ALWAYS the next best thing.  Last week it was fermented Siberian yak toenail clippings, and this week it’s 2,3-dimethyl-nitro-killyouquick.

These magazines and websites wouldn’t exist if they didn’t sell supplements.  It’s the advertising revenue that keeps them afloat and provides them with a reason for being.

But it’s not only the advertisements themselves – you can’t trust the ‘articles’ either.  Even if they’re not getting kickbacks directly for endorsing various products, the authors of these articles are financially tied to the well-being of the magazine or website.

3 – The Placebo Effect.   The placebo effect is known from medicine when a doctor ‘prescribes’ sugar pills to a patient and that person then experiences all sorts of positive results and improvements.

Basically a placebo is a drug (or a supplement) that works just because you think it’s going to work, not because of anything about the drug itself.

Scientific American summed it up by saying “belief is powerful medicine, even if the treatment itself is a sham.”

And every study that has ever looked for a placebo effect has found one…

The placebo effect is huge when it comes to sports supplements.  For example, there’s nothing more convincing than a friend who swears that a certain new product is ‘the bomb’ and urges you to try it too!

If someone tells you that extract of Saccharum edule helped 50 lbs onto their bench press then you might just want to rush out and buy yourself a bucket of that supplement too.  But Saccharum edule extract is just another name for table sugar….

4 – Faulty Research.  The wild claims made by the supplement companies and their cronies are usually backed up by so-called ‘research.’  But when you look at it more closely, this research is usually a just a single study (or a cherry-picked selection of studies which all back up the claims being made).

But a single study proves nothing!  And what’s even worse is that these studies are often small, poorly designed and improperly controlled experiments that nobody else has ever managed to duplicate.

And, by the way, the same people who did the study also own the company making the supplement…

That’s why in science nothing is ever proven until many different and unbiased researchers have found the same result.

I’ve spent enough time in academia and doing research to know how easy it would be for an unscrupulous individual to tamper with the results of a study to make it ‘prove’ whatever they want it to prove.

I could go on, but I think I’ve made my point.  When it comes to claims about sports supplements I urge EXTREME SKEPTICISM!!!  Distrust everybody

So, are there any good supplements you should be taking?

I recently had a conversation with Dr. Krista Scott-Dixon Ph.D. on the  topic of the science behind supplements.  We were trying to figure out which sports supplements have rock-solid track records.

(By the way, Krista is the research director for the Healthy Food Bank and runs the strength training site Stumptuous.com.  So she knows her nutrition inside-out.    And she also trains and competes in BJJ and grappling!)

Here’s Krista’s feedback about some of the supplements which have strong evidence for really working in a sports-enhancement context (plus my own comments)!

“Hi Stephan!

In order of preference, the supplements that have real science behind them are the following:

1. Colourful fruits and veggies (e.g. dark berries, dark leafy greens, beets, red grapefruit, etc.),

Stephan’s note: Absolutely!!!  The people I know who eat the least vegetables tend to have the MOST health problems.  And just for the record, potatoes and rice don’t count as vegetables…

2. Protein from varied sources – check (baseline 0.75 g/lb day for average people; 1 g/lb per day for athletes).

Stephan’s Note: that means if you’re an actively training 200 lb grappler then you should be consuming about 200 grams of protein every day.

3. Fish oil – yes, very useful. (5-15 g daily)

Stephan’s note: this is a LOT more fish oil than most people take.  Some recent studies suggest that you should be taking 900 mg of DHA, which is a component of fish oil, daily.  But the average fish oil capsule only contains about 100 mg of DHA, which means that you have to take about 9 capsules a day to get your DHA…

4. Vitamin D – 2000-4000 IU daily in the winter, purposeful sun exposure in summer.

Stephan’s note:  in the winter months I take about four vitamin D tablets a day, which works out to 4000 IU.  You definitely need Vitamin D if you live in northern climes, but don’t overdo it with this one – it IS possible to poison yourself with this vitamin if you take too much of it.

5. Creatine for athletes doing strength/power work.

Stephan’s note: I personally don’t take creatine all that often unless I’m trying to get ready for a specific event.  Also note that some people don’t respond to creatine, but for most people supplementing with 2 grams a day for a month will add about 5 lbs and a fair bit of strength if they’re also weightlifting at the same time.

6. Caffeine in SMALL doses (50-100 mg, about 1/2 to 3/4 cup coffee), 1 hour before training.

Stephan’s note: I don’t drink coffee, but if you’ve ever met me then you know that I’ve got a thing for dark chocolate.  So I guess I’m ‘supplementing’ with caffeine in my own way

There are other supplements of course.  For example, BCAAs (Branch Chain Amino Acids) are definitely well corroborated, but if folks get the first four items I mentioned right (or, frankly, even just the first two items), then things like BCAA are really just gravy. In my experience, almost nobody, even athletes, is really even doing #1 and #2 properly. Anyone who nails #1 and #2 consistently and correctly should see a significant increase in performance, wellbeing, and recovery.

And the big one, that trumps pretty much all others: SLEEP. If you get 30-60 min more sleep per night consistently, it kicks the ass of nearly any supplement! For the dudes in your audience, sleep bumps up regular endogeneous testosterone production more than just about anything else.”

How To Attract Women… To Your Grappling School

Tuesday, July 6th, 2010

Krista Scott-Dixon is many things, including being friend of mine, a student of BJJ and the brains behind a great fitness website called Stumptuous.com.

She is also a becoming a semi-regular contributor to Grapplearts.com.  In fact her latest great article starts like this:

“I am often asked two questions by well-meaning male instructors:

1. How do I get more women to join my school?
2. And once they join, how do I keep them?

Good questions.

Before I answer them, here are a couple of crucial things to understand.

But why encourage women in grappling at all?

It’s important to recognize that most of the features about your gym that make it welcoming to women also make it welcoming to the 95% of grapplers that aren’t 18-year-old, superfit, natural male athletes who will thrive no matter what you give them. (And those 5% will probably appreciate the improvements too.)…”

How To Sweep A Larger Opponent

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010

I’ve recently featured a fair bit of content from various guest authors.  And that’s a good thing, because different perspectives are critical to your improvement; after all, no single person can show you everything you need to know about grappling.

Today’s contributor is Jennifer Weintz, a skilled brown belt who has won gold at the Pan Ams twice and also medalled at the Mundials (the BJJ world championships).

In this video she shares her two favorite sweeps to use on bigger, stronger opponents.  (I should mention that I’ve also used these sweeps successfully on smaller, weaker opponents, so they’re definitely multipurpose techniques that should be in your arsenal if you’re doing BJJ).

P.S.  While we’re talking about fighting larger opponents check out the 5 DVD set I filmed with 3 x World Champion Emily Kwok. It’s full of techniques, drills, strategies, and tips to Defeat the Bigger, Stronger Opponent.   I’m clearly biased but I think it’s really good!

Tips for Female Grapplers

Tuesday, April 13th, 2010


Recently I’ve received a flood of emails from women and smaller men, wanting to know how to deal with larger, stronger opponents.

The thing is that – at 200+ lbs myself – I’m NOT the best person to address these questions. Of course I’ve had to deal with a few huge steroid monsters who outweighed me by 100+ lbs, but those were the exception, not the rule.

So my solution was to draft the ever-eloquent grappler Krista Scott-Dixon from Stumptuous.com. Weighing in at a massive 113 lbs Krista deals with larger stronger opponents almost every time she steps onto the mat. And to figure out how to survive and thrive on the mats despite this inequality she’s picked the brains of some of the best smaller grapplers in the business!

Over the last couple of days Krista has put together a really good piece called Tips for Female Grapplers for you. It’s got tips, techniques, principles and lots of practical advice for the smaller grapplers among us. I really enjoyed it, and I’m sure you will too!

Why I’m Training Like A (Strikeforce) Girl

Monday, August 17th, 2009

I had a great conditioning workout today, motivated by two entirely different things.

The first thing firing me up was watching a Christiane Cyborg conditioning session on Youtube. She was preparing for her recent fight in Strikeforce against Gina Carano. Love her or hate her, Ithink you’ll agree that she’s incredibly fit!

The second reason was that I’ve recently had less mat time than I would like (that’s because I’ve been working day and night on a brand new, top secret, grappling-related project). It’s ironic that when I’m focusing on creating material to help other people with their grappling, then I get too busy to concentrate on my own training…

But I know that soon I’ll be able to start training a lot more, and I don’t want to be completely out of shape when that happens! That’s why, whenever I’m grappling less often than my normal routine, then I try to do some additional conditioning to
compensate.

Anyway, here was today’s workout:

I started out with a brief jog, and then did four circuits of the following Cyborg-inspired exercises:

  • Tractor Tire Flips x 10 (this sucker weighs at least 300 lbs)
  • Plyo jumps up and down onto the tire x 10
  • Bodyweight squats x 20
  • Sledgehammer swings (hitting the tire) x 20\
  • Brief rest to catch my breath

Next came some aerobic work: 20 minutes on the Stairmaster, on a fairly constant ‘rolling hills’ setting.

This was followed by one warmup set and three working sets of the bench press

Next I knelt down in front of the cable machine, and did 20 kneeling one-handed cable pulldowns (2 sets per arm). This roughly resembles the motion of a one-armed chinup, but is a lot easier than that elite-level exercise.

Coming close to the end of the workout, I picked up some dumbells and did two sets of curl-and-press movements.

At the end of most of my workouts I usually do some abdominal, lower back and neck strengthening. Today was no different, so I did one set (not to failure) of each of the following exercises:

  • Back hyperextensions
  • Abdominal crunches
  • Neck harness work

As you can see, this was a hybrid between functional sports training, and more traditional weightlifting or bodybuilding style exercises.

Whenever I post something like this I usually get emails from people honestly trying to help me and concerned that I’m doing everything wrong… Either my workouts are “too long”, or “too short,” or have too much aerobic endurance stuff, or I need to do more sprints, or I need to add Olympic lifting or start doing isometric holds…

Am I doing the 100% optimal workout for grappling? Honestly, everybody has an opinion but nobody knows for sure.

My mantra when it comes to conditioning is that doing something is better than doing nothing!

So was this workout session better than sitting on my duff, watching TV and eating potato chips?

You bet!

Until next time…

Survival Story

Monday, February 18th, 2008

An anonymous person contacted me recently and shared a story of how a female friend had used a few months of BJJ training to escape from an assault and/or attempted rape situation. Using BJJ she managed to escape a pin, stand up and then run away and get help. She probably just used very basic pin escape movements, but pulling them off under emotional duress, with limited training and a large size and strength disadvantage points to the effectiveness of both the techniques she learned and the training methods used to ingrain them in her.

Arguments about the relative importance of grappling in MMA go on and on, but women’s self defense is not MMA. Virtually all rapes end up on the ground, and I think that some form of grappling is critical for women everywhere. This takes us back to the article written by the female readership of this newsletter entitled ‘Why Should Women Grapple” – it’s an article that is still very relevant and I’m proud to have it on my site. Please feel free to forward this article to the women in your life, it might just make them a little safer.