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On Standing Up to Bullies

October 5, 2025 by Stephan Kesting

Billy Sole's last stand in Predator

I was 16 when I first became disillusioned with one of my martial arts teachers. Not because of something he did, but because of something he didn't do. At the time I was deep into Kung Fu training. Legs shaking in low horse stances, punishing the air with punches, hopping around like a monkey, pouncing like a tiger, pecking like a crane.  (At the time everyone knew that Kung fu was the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Miscellaneous Tagged With: Self Defense, The Mental Aspect

Growing Self Confidence with BJJ

September 23, 2025 by Stephan Kesting

How BJJ develops self confidence

Alicia Reitz and I dive deep into how BJJ can be used to develop a strong sense of self confidence for everyone, and how that self confidence can then be put to good use in self defense and the the rest of your life. We also digress a little into specifics of the social media drama that I was involved in recently, which certainly raised my blood pressure just a little. You can also catch … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Female Grapplers, For Beginners, Podcasts Tagged With: Alicia Reitz, BJJ, Self Defense, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Women

BJJ and Self Defense, What Does the Data Say?

January 16, 2025 by Stephan Kesting

Stephan Kesting and Tyson LaRone talk self defense

Tyson Larone is a BJJ belt, a Muay Thai teacher, TEDx speaker, and a strongman competitor. In this episode he and I dive deep into exploring how BJJ can be used for self defense. Topics include how context changes everything in self defense… adaptations that women and smaller people need to make…the problems with the one time self defense seminar model… the need for force-multipliers and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Interviews, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: BJJ, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Tyson Larone, Video, Weapons

Ramsey Dewey on MMA Training and Self Defense

August 26, 2024 by Stephan Kesting

Ramsey Dewey on The Strenuous Life Podcast

Ramsey Dewey is an MMA coach now based in Shanghai, China. I really enjoyed our conversation, including How wearing headgear in sparring actually makes things WORSE for your brain His controvesey with Master Wong Why China could take over MMA What self defense 'experts' get wrong What happens to martial arts that don't spar Ramsey's experience on The Ultimate Self Defense … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Interviews, Mixed Martial Arts, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Martial Arts, MMA, MMA training, Ramsey Dewey, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training, Video

BJJ for Women’s Self Defense

April 1, 2024 by Stephan Kesting

I really enjoyed talking with Rachel Honeyman about modifying BJJ for self defense, which techniques to focus on and which positions to avoid.  Rachel has trained in BJJ, the Filipino Martial Arts, Muay Thai, and many other martial arts and runs FearlessFemmes.com. BJJ for Women's Self Defense - Audio Only This conversation was also published as episode 401 of The Strenuous Life Podcast. You … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Female Grapplers, For Beginners, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: BJJ, Rachel Honeyman, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training, Video

The Ultimate Self Defense Championship

August 4, 2023 by Stephan Kesting

The Ultimate Self Defense Championship with Rokas Leo

The Ultimate Self-Defense Championship was a competition in which six martial arts YouTubers competed against each other in seven self-defense challenges to find out what works, what doesn't and who would become the ultimate self-defense champion. The results were shocking, and the entertainment value was off the charts! On episode 388 of The Strenuous Life Podcast I talk with the organizer … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Competition, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: BJJ, Competition, Drills, Interviews, Rokas Leo, Self Defense, Sparring, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting

Sport vs Self Defense Jiu-Jitsu, with John Will

October 3, 2022 by Stephan Kesting

Sport vs Self Defense Jiu-jitsu, with John Will

John Will trained in Southern California in the late 80's, was one of the first 12 non-Brazilians to get a BJJ black belt, and then went on to create the largest jiu-jitsu association in Australasia. We talked about how the art has changed, how to be 'centrist' in the sport vs self defense debate, teaching elite military personnel, how to create a curriculum, and much more. I'm sure you'll … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Health & Nutrition, Podcasts Tagged With: Competition, History, John Will, Podcast, Schools, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training

A Revelation That’s Helped Me ‘Win’ More than 10 Street Fights

May 27, 2021 by Stephan Kesting

Winning street fights by not fighting

Today's video (and podcast episode) is story about the first time I 'won' a street fight by realising that the other guy - an older, shabbily dressed, homeless man - was almost certainly mentally ill. A good street fight is one that you walk away from or de-escalate, because even if you KO the other guy you could still lose (as I discussed in my Death After the Knockout article. Be … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Martial Arts, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Video

Interview with Yuri Simoes, 2 x ADCC World Champion

April 20, 2020 by Stephan Kesting

Yuri Simoes Interview on The Strenuous Life Podcast with Stephan Kesting

Yuri Simoes is a two time ADCC World Championship, a two-time IBJJF black belt Absolute No-Gi World Champion, and a two-time Pan American Champion. In our chat we go deep into developing the motivation required to train at such a high level, recovering from 2 horrific knee injuries and winning ADCC, the importance of self defense training, how he took down a Olympic Judo champion in … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Interviews, Mixed Martial Arts, Podcasts Tagged With: ACL, BJJ, Brazil, Injuries, Interviews, Judo, Self Defense, Takedowns, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training, Training Schedule, Yuri Simoes

Five Tips for Training During Coronavirus Lockdown

April 14, 2020 by Stephan Kesting

5 strategies for training BJJ during covid

As I write this most clubs, dojos and training groups all over the world have shut down for a very noble cause; to flatten the coronavirus curve By shutting things down we're slowing (not stopping) community transmission of this virus, which in turn prevents the medical system from being overrun all at once and allows the system to manufacture and stockpile masks and other personal protective … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grappling Techniques, Health & Nutrition, Podcasts Tagged With: BJJ, Cardio, Conditioning, Grapplearts DVDs, Grappling Dummies, Martial Arts, Nutrition, Self Defense, Solo Drills, Strength Training, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Video

5 Critical BJJ Skills for BJJ Self Defense

January 17, 2020 by Stephan Kesting

A lot of people don't know that I actually run TWO sites.  There's this one, Grapplearts.com, of course, but then there's also SelfDefenseTutorials.com. One of the most popular articles on that site is called The 5 Most Important Self Defense Lessons from Jiu-Jitsu... https://selfdefensetutorials.com/5-quick-lessons-on-grappling-for-self-defense/ To help spread the word I recently ranted … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Competition, Interviews, Podcasts Tagged With: BJJ, Martial Arts, Self Defense, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training

BJJ Self Defense Rant

November 12, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

BJJ Self Defense

In this podcast episode I answer a question received on an Instagram Live Q&A about a boxing beating jiu-jitsu in a real streetfight. (Follow me on Instagram @stephan_kesting and maybe a future podcast episode will be devoted to something you asked about!) The question I dive into today is, "What are the the odds that a boxer would beat a BJJ practitioner if all other things - size, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Instagram, MMA, MMA training, Self Defense, Sparring, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting

Leg Action in Rear Mount – How to Put the Squeeze on Your Opponent

September 8, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

Full rear mount with harness on upper body and proper leg action

The rear mount is one of the very best positions you can get in BJJ. In rear mount you're behind your opponent and can attack him with chokes and armlocks (not to mention strikes in an MMA or self defense context).  And there's pretty much bugger all that he can do to you... But it can be a lot of work to get here.  You have to pass his guard, induce him to turn, secure your grips, get your … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grappling Techniques Tagged With: BJJ, MMA, Rear Mount, Rob Biernacki, Self Defense, Techniques

Monty Collier, Keanu Reeve’s Judo Instructor for John Wick 3, Parabellum

April 23, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

Keanu Reeves and Collier Judo Boys John Wick 3

Today's guest on The Strenuous Life Podcast is Monty Collier, a black belt Judoka who worked with Keanu Reeves to get him ready for the amazing fight sequences in the movie John Wick 3, Parabellum.  This conversation was fun and we really went detail about stuntwork and gun fu movie fighting including how he taught Keanu highly technical Judo throws that have bedevilled me for years. We … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Interviews, Miscellaneous, Podcasts Tagged With: Competition, History, Injuries, Interviews, Judo, Monty Collier, Self Defense, Stuntwork, Takedowns, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Training, Uchi Mata

How to Win Lethwei World Championships,

April 8, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

Patrick Marcil, Lethwei trainer

Today's we're talking about training a fighter to become a world champion in an incredibly intense full contact martial known as Lethwei.  Lethwei is from Burma and looks a bit like Muay Thai with a few crazy additions... First of all, in addition to punches, kicks, elbows, and knees they also allow headbutts... If a fighter gets knocked out their cornermen have two minutes tor resuscitate them … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Miscellaneous, Mixed Martial Arts, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Conditioning, History, Interviews, Lethwei, MMA, MMA training, Muay Thai, Neck Strengthening, Patrick Marcil, Self Defense, Sparring, The Mental Aspect, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting

New Self Defense Focussed Module for Your iPhone or Android Phone

January 14, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

The Self Defense Guard for iPhone and Android

People have been asking for me to include more self defense material on the Grapplearts BJJ Master App. And, as always, your wish is my command! The Self Defense Guard - a 2 module instructional for iPhone and Android - is now the newest module with the Master App. I did this instructional together with BJJ black belt Elliott Bayev. In it you'll get the techniques and strategies from … [Read more...]

Filed Under: For Beginners, Grappling Techniques, Instructional Videos Tagged With: Android, Closed Guard, Elliott Bayev, Grapplearts, Grapplearts BJJ Master App, Grapplearts DVDs, Ground and Pound, iPhone, Martial Arts, MMA, Open Guard, Self Defense

Bow and Arrow Chokes in the Street, with Adam Nadow

January 8, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

BJJ Bow and Arrow Choke in Self Defense

Jiu-jitsu black belt Adam Nadow was recently attacked in the street and used his training to defend himself and control his attacker until the police arrived. The video of this confrontation later went viral in the BJJ and self defense community. But what's not as commonly known is that he then involved himself in trying to rehabilitate his attacker, going so far as to provide him with food and … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Interviews, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Adam Nadow, BJJ, Bow and Arrow Choke, Interviews, Rear Mount, Rear Naked Choke, Self Defense, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting

Dealing with the Gi in Grappling

January 5, 2019 by Stephan Kesting

The 5 Most Important Things for Transitioning from No Gi to Gi thumbnail

Are you coming from a background in submission grappling or training mostly without the gi and trying to get into BJJ? Are you frustrated by the cloth prison (the gi) that's stifling your movements and allowing your opponent to wrap you up? I'm a big fan of being competent in both gi and no gi grappling, if for no other reason than self defense. Yes, you might get attacked on the beach … [Read more...]

Filed Under: For Beginners, Grappling Techniques Tagged With: BJJ, Collar Spider Guard, de la Riva Guard, Fundamentals, Gi, Gi vs No Gi, Gripfighting, No Gi, Self Defense, Spider Guard, The Mental Aspect, Video

Brand New Instructional – The Precision Kickboxing Masterclass

December 4, 2018 by Stephan Kesting

Precision Kickboxing Masterclass

What's a grappler like me doing getting involved with a project like The Precision Kickboxing Masterclass that officially launched today? Totally valid question... First of all I trained in Muay Thai, Jun Fan JKD, and Kajukenbo for years. And dabbled in Savate, Capoeira and Boxing. I like to think that I was pretty good at striking back in the day. One of the things I learned is that … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Instructional Videos, Miscellaneous, Self Defense Tagged With: Grapplearts DVDs, Martial Arts, MMA, MMA training, Ritchie Yip, Self Defense, Striking

Grappling and the 5 Ranges of Fighting

November 23, 2018 by Stephan Kesting

grappling and the other fighting ranges

I've said many times that BJJ is a fantastic sport and fitness activity, but that at it's core it's a martial art. And it being a martial art means that you have be able to use it to defend yourself. Now it's pretty hard to beat BJJ and submission grappling as a martial art at close range. The ability to move up the positional hierarchy, getting to more and more dominant position, is a HUGE … [Read more...]

Filed Under: For Beginners, Mixed Martial Arts, Podcasts, Self Defense Tagged With: Martial Arts, Self Defense, Striking, The Strenuous Life BJJ Podcast with Stephan Kesting, Video, Weapons, Wrestling

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